A process to reclaim your life energy and get free.

What Is Finding Forgiveness?

Finding Forgiveness is a transformative one-on-one experience, approximately two hours in length, during which you will be guided through a process to find forgiveness with a person in your life who you are holding resentment towards or struggling to find completion with.

Freedom Through Forgiving

We have all been hurt, many times over. But there are certain hurts, that no matter how much work we’ve done to get over, no matter how much time we’ve spent grieving, or raging, or talking about in therapy, we haven’t quite been able to let go completely. We’re still carrying some of the resentment, anger, or betrayal. Maybe it’s faint, like a bruise that only hurts when poked, but it’s there. Whatever it is, these people and events are taking up mental and emotional real estate inside of you that they do not need to. They are wounds that are still taking some of your life energy, but that energy is yours to reclaim.

Over and again in my life I have found the only way to find true freedom from the past is through forgiving, but I also know it’s not always easy to do. Many of us are afraid we aren’t ready or won’t be able to, or we believe we are simply destined to live out our lives carrying these dull aches. 

I am a stand for this not being true. I believe we all have the capacity to take agency in our lives, reclaim our life energy and move forward with more space and inner peace. This process evolved out of my desire to help others find their way there, and I want to work with anyone who desires this freedom for themselves.

Misconceptions About Forgiving…

Forgiveness Is NOT:

- Forgetting what happened.

- Condoning what happened, or making it “okay.”

- Conditional on what someone else says or does.

- An act for anyone other than you.

 Forgiveness Is:

- Giving up all hopes of a better past.

- Unburdening yourself from negative emotions.

- Reclaiming the life energy you have been giving away to someone else.

- An act for you.

Who do you need to forgive?

The Finding Forgiveness experience works with anyone in your life you have unresolved feelings with. However, this work is not a replacement for the hard work of engaging directly with those you have conflict with; this is the inner work. If you are actively engaged in conflict with someone, a direct conflict resolution process such as mediation may be recommended.

  • Ex-lovers, spouses, creative partners, business partners, collaborators and friends.

  • Those who are deceased, who you are estranged from or no longer on speaking terms with.

  • Parents or other family members who are unwilling or unable to be with hurt you are holding from the past.

  • Childhood bullies, abusive former bosses, perpetrators of any kind.

  • Someone you are in a mediation, litigation or settlement process with that has you wanting to show up to the negotiation with fewer emotional needs.

  • Anyone you are still in relationship with who you don’t trust is available to meet you in your experience.

And, an act of forgiveness towards someone else, inevitably includes an act of forgiveness toward oneself.

Testimonials

Testimonials

“A numinous experience that contains more than a little magic. Lisa creates a safe, welcoming space that allowed me to approach some very difficult moments from my past and to find a new level of equilibrium. Finding Forgiveness is powerful and transformative work with a very gifted guide.”

– Jay, Los Angeles, CA

“Finding Forgiveness allowed me to release long held emotional trauma and find a new level of peace and spaciousness. This is work that I needed to do, had been trying to do, and could not do on my own or with traditional forms of therapy. Lisa compassionately and skillfully blends her expertise with multiple techniques to facilitate powerful transformation.”

— Sage, Maui, HI

“This work is both revelatory and gentle. With Lisa’s immense empathy, care and conscious attention, I was able to release resentments I’ve been holding since childhood around a core relationship in my life, and let go of my desire for the past to be anything other than what it was. I feel as though Lisa helped me to shift my weight slightly, and it will impact my walk forever.”

– Brooke, Los Angeles, CA

“Lisa has an extraordinary ability, with gentleness and great care, to be with you at the heart of your story. In my deepest vulnerability, I felt incredible trust and heard words and phrases being spoken to my head, heart, and spirit that I needed to hear for so long. I cannot recommend highly enough the journey that Lisa will share with you.”

– Evan, Glendora, CA

“My experience with Lisa was truly healing and transformative. Her deep listening and intuitive, insightful observation created a space for me to feel into a wellspring of pain and need around this person. Safely held by Lisa's fierce love and guidance, I could really be with these feelings (that can also be scary, confusing, shameful). That is her magic, and that's what makes Finding Forgiveness so special and valuable.”

– Martha, Los Angeles, CA

“Going into this experience, I had zero expectations of finding forgiveness, but working with Lisa was profoundly transformative. In two hours, we processed, made sense of, and released an incredibly painful betrayal that I had been carrying for a year. I'm in awe the way Lisa leads with empathy and care while maintaining grounded, healthy boundaries. In reflecting back a month later, the release has continued to deepen. The experience was profoundly real, and ultimately life changing.”

-Ellie, New York, NY

“This process was genuinely life-changing. After going through a traumatic experience at work, I found myself unable to move forward emotionally. I did Finding Forgiveness three separate times with Lisa, each time with a different person connected to the trauma. Each time it was revelatory and relief-providing. Lisa shifted my perspective and gave me healing around so many aspects of my past.”

– Lauren, Los Angeles, CA

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